Friday, October 12, 2012

Happy Life – 5: Supreme Love


In this materialistic world, love of a mother for her child is considered to be supreme. I think that there are three reasons for this.
(1)    Mother’s love for her child is without expectation;
(2)  Mother’s pleasure or satisfaction lies in progress, pleasure or satisfaction of her child; and
(3)    Mother sacrifices her happiness for the happiness of her child.

A father’s love for his child can also be considered to be supreme only if his love too satisfies aforesaid tests but, for well known reasons, father’s love, even if it satisfies aforesaid three tests, cannot be equated with mother’s love. Love of a father for his child, where it satisfies aforesaid tests, can suitably be addressed as pure or true love of a father for his child.

In my opinion, where anyone claims that his or her love for anybody is pure or true love then his or her love should pass three tests referred to above.

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Happy Life – 4


Sorry expressed with reluctant mind is meaningless. Likewise, forgiving with reluctant mind is also meaningless. Both of these leave cause for tension. We should remember that person expressing regret is an acceptor and person who forgives is a donor. We should not forget that exchange of sorry and forgiveness also earn a good relationship between the two.

Happy Life – 3


Do not lament on the death of your dear one but, within your limitations and abilities, try to fill in the vacuum, the death has created. This is the only true and fruitful tribute to the departed soul. 

Happy Life – 2


If you are annoyed with any of your elders simply because he / she has said something bitter to you then forget it remembering that elders have a right to scold you and likewise if you are annoyed with any of your youngers because he / she has said something bitter to you then forget it and forgive them remembering that he / she is ignorant.

Happy Life – 1


     If you want to maintain cordial relations with others then always think about doing good to others and –
(1) never remember your good doings to others howsoever big those might have been; and
(2) always remember and feel obliged for others good doings for you, howsoever small those might have been.